Mary Catherine DeSantis A native of Rochester, NY, aged 55 years, passed away in San Jose, CA on November 6, 2004 in San Jose, CA. She is survived by her husband and life partner of 33 years Lewis Winkley. She was preceded in death by her parents Frank and Mary T. DeSantis. In lieu of flowers donations to the charity of your choice would be appreciated. A Celebration of Mary's life will be held Wednesday, November 10, 2004 at 5:30 p.m. at Arbuckle Elementary School, 1970 Cinderella Lane, San Jose and on Sunday, November 14, 2004 at 1:00 p.m. at Slonaker Elementary School, 1601 Cunningham Ave., San Jose. Arrangements by CHAPEL OF FLOWERS, San Jose.